From TikTok to Xiaohongshu: Making Friends (and Maybe Spies?) Along the Way
From TikTok to Xiaohongshu: Making Friends (and Maybe Spies?) Along the Way
The “TikTok refugee” story is still unfolding, and is taking many unexpected turns. It started as a response to a potential ban, but has transformed into a unique example of cross-cultural connection, with users from different parts of the world meeting and making new friends on a new platform.
An Unintentional Meeting Place:
RedNote was not originally intended to be a destination for TikTok users in America, but that’s how many see it at the moment.
- A Shared Experience: Both Chinese users and former TikTok users now share a space where they can learn from one another, and build relationships.
- Common Ground: Users are actively connecting with each other by trading cat pics, using memes, and using humour.
- Finding “Spies”: It has now become a joke, that they are seeking out and connecting with their “Chinese spy friends” on the app, as a direct take on the reason that TikTok is being banned.
A Culture Shift:
As a new community is forming, users are also learning to adapt and connect across cultural lines.
- Language Learning: Users from many countries are trying to learn some Mandarin, so they can better communicate with others on the platform.
- Cultural Exchange: Users are also asking to see more of Chinese culture, and are also sharing their own home cultures with others on the platform.
- Humor: Many users have responded to the difficult situation, with a sense of humour, which has allowed them to express themselves, while also finding new connections.
Navigating New Connections:
- Be Authentic: Be genuine in your interactions, and engage with users respectfully.
- Be Open: Allow for the possibility of new perspectives and try to connect with other users without bias.
- Do not get political: Keep your interactions neutral and focused on shared interests.
- Be Safe: Do not share personally identifying information with users that you do not fully trust.
Conclusion:
The journey from TikTok to Xiaohongshu (RedNote) has been a source of many new friendships, as users connect across cultures and language barriers. The humor and irony present in this process highlights the user’s ability to find positives even when dealing with difficult and unpredictable situations. It might be a lesson in how all users can connect with one another regardless of their origin or their background.